Monday, February 23, 2026

Good-bye, Blue

Blueberry "Blue-Blue" Sales

March 25, 2018 - February 16, 2026

Almost 8 years of pure fluffy gorgeousness and sass.

Loved by a little boy who misses her so much.

This week has been really tough for our family. We knew she didn't have long because Polish rabbits typically have a lifespan of just 5-6 years. So we were happily grateful for every day she was with us in the last couple of years.

But on Christmas Eve, we saw her weakened and old. She was just sitting and didn't want to leave her cage anymore. Sometimes, she didn't even get up for treats. That was when we knew she didn't have long. My youngest son, and the only one Blue loved, wrote a poem for her.

We told her, "Blue, don't leave us on Christmas!" Then it was, "Blue, don't leave us on New Year's Day!" And then, "Blue, don't leave us on Valentine's Day!" But the day before Chinese New Year, she quietly left us while we were at work and school. It hurts my heart so much that she died alone. 

I have been crying on and off, but when her ashes finally came back home on Saturday, my heart felt at peace. She's with us again, and my heart is glad. I could tell my youngest boy is happy his fur friend is back home, too. He said he's stopped crying na. 

First photo together

Last photo together

Appreciating this thoughtful presentation of Blue-Blue's ashes

Good-bye, Blue. Say hello to Galady, Matilda, Gandalfi, Alice, Sari, Waiter, and CC for us!

Thank you. We love you. We miss you forever.

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Sunday, February 01, 2026

The kids are all right

Hi, dear Loyal Readers! I shared these photos over Christmas, and a lot of you were shocked. Yes, malalaki na sila. They're 15, 13, and 11. How fast time flies! 


Many of you asked how the kids are. Lalo na kasi yung mga kasabayan kong mommy bloggers na actively sharing pa rin about their kids, nasusundan niyo talaga. Eh, yung mga anak ko very private kaya after 2016 or so, di na ako masyadong nagkwento about them. I archived their photos sa Instagram, too.


But since nagtanong kayo, eto ang pwede kong ma-share. They're very smart and talented. They go to an international school (kaya naging corporate slave ako haha). Malapit lang school nila sa bahay so the high schoolers commute a lot. I'm proud of the fact that they're independent, and I'm glad di sila kilala because I really don't want strangers to approach them and be all, "Hi! I follow your mom's blog/IG/FB!" This freaks them out actually, the rare times it happens. 

They're doing very well in school except for Filipino. They play instruments. They sing. They enjoy their friends. Ano pa ba? Oh, they eat a lot. Grabe.


You'll be seeing more of my eldest child soon because meron siyang big fund-raising project. I am so excited to tell you! And I'm counting on all of you na suportahan siya! Kasama siya sa delegation to the International STEM Olympiad in Netherlands. And kasali rin siya sa Asia Math Engineering Challenge in Malaysia. I'm very proud!

My second son naman is really into music. Obsessed. He plays the guitar, piano, and bass. He even played in Sunday worship service once. So that's really cool. I'm very proud!

Yung bunso naman is like the ringleader of his friends. Ang kulit ng batang yan! He likes reading books and baking brownies. And he's insightful and wise. I'm very proud!


But what I'm most proud of is how sweet and good they are. They're really such good kids. Wala kaming problema sa kanila at all. Well, I wish they'd do the dishes and clean their room more, but in the great scheme of things, they're pretty awesome. 

And I know you're curious about how they are, especially since many of you saw them born. You were there watching them grow and talk and eat and do all the cutesy things babies do. And suddenly, you stopped seeing them. For 10 years! 

Thank you for understanding and respecting their privacy. I really appreciate that, despite the radio silence, you still love my children. I still feel it. Thank you. And you'll probably see more of them soon, with their consent, but just so you know, the kids are all right. Happy, healthy, thriving, and absolutely wonderful!

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Sunday, January 18, 2026

Affirmations that really work


I have a confession: I've always felt affirmations were kinda weird and woo-woo. I know that reality starts in the mind. You must imagine your reality! And you do that with affirmations. I just didn't really know how that's done.

Well, today, I learned something about affirmations that really changed how I see them. And I'm going to share them with you because it's a new year! And I bet we're all thinking of how to make 2026 a better year.

I took this Linkedin Learning course, The Six Morning Habits of High Performers by Pete Mockaitis. One of the habits is affirmations. And here's what high performers affirm every morning: First, affirmations must not be a lie. For example, don't say, "I am a millionaire," because your brain will go, "But... we're not?" That made so much sense to me, TBH. Another tip is the affirmations must not be passive. Don't say, "I am a money magnet. Success flows through me," because you're not doing anything. Just standing there thinking of money will not make you money.

And I screencapped this to help me write mine:

I love this thoughtful take on affirmations! Ground them in truth, must be action-oriented and time-bound. Doesn't it make much more sense?

Now, part of the course was to do assignments, so here's what I wrote down for me. Instead of vague affirmations, I reframed mine into commitments with clear actions and timelines. Check them out!
 
As a Mom

Commitment: I am a present and loving mom.
Why: Because my sons deserve to feel seen, heard, and supported, now more than ever!
Actions: I will create daily pockets of connection, whether through meals, bedtime chats, or shared activities.
When: Every day, even for 15-30 minutes. Even when I'm tired!

Commitment: I am raising kind, aware, and responsible boys.
Why: Because I want them to grow into good men who contribute positively to the world.
Actions: I will have honest conversations about values, model kindness, and give them space to share their thoughts.
When: Through daily interactions and family discussions, whenever the opportunity comes up.

For My Health

Commitment: I am prioritizing my physical and mental well-being.
Why: Because a healthy body and mind will help me show up fully in every area of my life.
Actions: I will move my body regularly, stay hydrated, and choose nourishing foods.
When: By exercising 3-4 times a week and making mindful food choices daily.

Commitment: I am honoring my body’s need for rest and care.
Why: Because rest restores my creativity, energy, and emotional balance.
Actions: I will create a consistent sleep routine, allow myself guilt-free downtime, and spoil myself rotten every month!
When: By being in bed by 10:30 PM on weeknights. (This is the only thing I'm sure I can commit to.)

As a Writer and Author

Commitment: I am building a successful and impactful writing career.
Why: Because my words have the power to inspire, heal, and connect with others.
Actions: I will dedicate focused writing time and submit/publish my work consistently.
When: By writing for at least 30 minutes on weekday mornings.

Commitment: I am continuously improving my craft.
Why: Because great writing comes from lifelong learning and practice.
Actions: I will read widely, study storytelling techniques, and seek feedback.
When: By reading a book every month or taking a writing course every quarter!

As a Communications Manager

Commitment: I am growing into a confident and strategic communications leader.
Why: Because my voice and ideas shape how others see, feel, and act.
Actions: I will strengthen my digital marketing knowledge, embrace new tools, and measure the impact of my work.
When: By dedicating time each month to learning and reviewing performance metrics.

O, diba? Very Linkedin ang language. And isa lang kaya kong i-commit for my job because it's already taking a lot out of me! Anyway, I like how this course helped me form affirmations that reflect my values, give me clear direction in my daily life, and keep me accountable. 

Actually, they're kinda hard to do! So I'm still struggling with the execution and accountability part. But I'm getting there! 

I know now that affirmations aren't about faking it till you make it. Affirmations are just words. Powerful words! But what really changes my life is consistent action. So this is me sharing with you my affirmations. Let's call them my commitments. So I can be accountable! 

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